NOVEMBER 1

The service at my church for All Souls Day was really lovely. We were encouraged to bring photos of our loved ones who have passed and place them on the windowsills around the meeting house.

There are so many in my family who have passed, and it’s the majority. There are few of us left on my mother’s side, with some cousins on the east coast and some in California. My father’s side is tiny and there is one cousin left on that side.

I could hear people crying as they softly named their loved ones. I closed my eyes and just brought my family to mind, seeing their faces in front of me. On this day for the past 5 years I would cry for Lea. In the beginnng I would sob, and over the years it has become less painful. This past Sunday, I was able to sit with the memories and just feel her love.

My mother’s side, the Rizzo’s, was a classic italian family. I really miss those days. I wish my children were able to experience what I had as a child growing up. By the time they were young children it was harder to bring us all togehter due to distance. Fortunately, we were blessed with an extended family – the Lake Family – 6 families brought together with a love for Lake Winnipesaukee. The kids in these families have become my kid’s cousins. Our annul trips since the time they were babies have filled our lives with joy. Now, many of the lake kids are married and some are having children. It’s wonderful to be a part of this.

Beyond that, I have been so fortunate to have so many dear friends. On Sunday, our minister Elea Kemler, read this quote which I wanted to share with you because it’s so true for me:

How could I have come so far?

I must have traveled by the light

Shining from the faces of all those I have loved.

– Thomas McGrath

For the sermon, Elea read something she wrote in 2018 entitled “Love Does Not Disappear.” I hope you will read it.